Ego Strength Coaching

The Self Study Lab:

For People Who Are Outwardly Capable and Inwardly Struggling

Founding Member Offer

A nervous-system-informed practice space for people who want daily structure, clear guidance, and real-life integration — not just more insight.

As a Founding Member, you get early access, lifetime pricing, and the chance to help shape the Lab from the ground up.

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This Might Be You

  • High-functioning on the outside, dysregulated on the inside

  • Insightful and self-aware, but stuck in repeating patterns

  • Living with persistent anxiety that makes everything feel harder

  • Knowing what to do, but struggling to follow through

  • Trying to break relational patterns like people-pleasing or avoidance

  • Wanting daily structure, not just occasional insight

You’re not broken — You’re operating without a system.

The Lab gives you that system.

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Why This Exists

I’m a coach with 18 years of experience as a teacher, and 9 years as a therapist. After years of my own healing and thousands of hours as a therapist, I kept seeing the same pattern: people gain insight, but struggle to integrate it into daily life.

I saw it in session after session: clients were doing the work — but they needed support I couldn’t give them inside the traditional therapy container. They needed a way to carry the work into the in-between — where most of life happens.

Our brains are wired for efficiency and autopilot, so even the best insights fade without reminders, structure, and repetition.

If you’re already doing therapeutic work, the Self-Study Lab deepens it. If you’re not, it gives you the structure, guidance, and daily practice most people never receive in therapy at all.

What You’ll Find in the Program

Structured Lessons

Clear, digestible teachings that help you understand your brain, your patterns, and the foundational forces shaping your behavior.

Pattern Mapping

Tools to help you spot your loops, name your triggers, and understand how your nervous system responds in real time.

Daily Awareness Practices

Simple guided check-ins that keep you intentional, regulated, and connected to yourself throughout the day.

A Supportive Community

A thoughtful, growth-oriented space where you can ask questions, get encouragement, and co-regulate with others on the same path.

Monthly Experiments

Small, focused challenges that help you test new behaviors, gather real data, and learn what actually works for your system.

Tools to Sustain Alignment

Practical frameworks, reminders, and structures that help you stay consistent and keep your life pointed in the direction you choose.

EARLY MEMBER BENEFIT

Founder Access: Direct Support

During the founder phase, you’ll have direct access to me inside the Self-Study Lab. You can ask questions anytime, and I personally respond to every one.

This won’t be available forever — but early members get the highest level of support as we build this together.

Founding member pricing reflects this early, high-support phase and will increase as the System grows.

This is a place to be thoughtful, observant, supported, and intentional — every day.

How It Works →

Become a Founding Member

The Self Study System opens January 22nd — where resolutions fade, and real change begins.

I’m taking the rest of this year to refine the experience, record the lessons, and build the tools that will help you stay regulated, consistent, and intentional.

Because I want the first group to feel held and well-supported, I’m limiting the founding cohort to about 20–30 people.

If you already know you want to be part of the first group, you can reserve your spot now.

If you’d rather wait, you can join the early access list — just know that the list does not guarantee a spot, but you’ll be first to hear when enrollment opens.

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Founding Member Benefits

  • The highest level of direct support from me

    Private message portal to ask questions and get support (response time ~48 hours)

    (This level of access is not available after Jan 2026.)

  • Biweekly live Q&A sessions

    Bring questions, refine your process, and get real support in real time.

  • Direct influence on what gets built next

    Your experience helps shape the lessons, tools, and features that come next.

  • Behind-the-scenes updates

    See how the System is evolving and get early previews of new material.

  • A smaller, more connected early community

    The founding group will stay intentionally intimate (around 20–30 people).

  • Early pricing locked in for life

    Your $99/month rate never changes, even as the System grows and expands.

Why the Value is So High

Therapy is powerful, but it happens once a week. Life, patterns, and dysregulation happen every day.

The Self Study System gives you the structure, reminders, and support most people never receive in therapy — helping you actually integrate what you’re learning into daily life.

It’s not therapy, but it’s deeply therapy-adjacent support that can work alongside your healing or stand on its own as a nervous-system-informed practice space.

What’s the Time Commitment

  • Daily: 5–15 minutes for AM/PM check-ins (sent to your phone)

  • Weekly: 30–45 minutes for the core lesson and reflection

  • Biweekly Calls (Optional):

    Live group calls every two weeks for support, questions, and deeper integration.

    Come when you can — the Lab is fully functional without attending every call.

    Flexible by design: The Lab is built for people who are already carrying a lot. It adapts to your bandwidth, your schedule, and your capacity —so growth stays sustainable, not overwhelming.

Become a Founding Member

Pricing will go up for later cohorts as more lessons and tools are added.

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